then pretty much everyone in a longterm relationship is guilty of first degree murder.Īll that said, BLOW, you’re going to have to have a conversation with your boyfriend. But if contemplating something makes us guilty of it. That said, BLOW, most people who join hookup sites intend to hookup and the rest have at least contemplated hooking up. Some people just want the virtual strokes and ego boost that comes with being wanted by someone who doesn't have 'wants me' in their job description. Not everyone who joins a hookup site intends to do any hooking up. That doesn’t make cheating on you okay cheating is not okay-if, again, he cheated on you.
It’s also possible that he wants something in addition to all the wonderful sex he’s having with you-it's possible that what he wants isn't just a blowjob, but a blowjob from a man. It’s possible you do have a wonderful sex life. (I'm stressing those 'ifs' because some people join hookup sites to fantasize, not actualize.) If he went through with this- if you two have a monogamous commitment (I'm assuming you do) and if he got his cock sucked by some dude (and the jury is still out on that)-then you were definitely betrayed. Before I go any further: I want to affirm your feelings.
